The lockdown continues to affect me much less than most people and I count my blessings for that – and for avoiding infection so far. I’m retired and live in the country with plenty of space, leisure time and a nice garden to sit or work in. I know many are far less fortunate – and doubly so because the weather has been so lovely since the lockdown kicked off.
Nonetheless, the difference for me between this Easter and last year’s Easter is a stark indicator of how much the world has changed. Last Easter, Long-Suffering Wife (LSW) and I hosted a treasure hunt and lunch for 19 of our family. Two of our sons brought their girlfriends to stay with us and, throughout Easter Sunday, the extended family intermingled in the garden over drinks and food. There is none of that this year. The only similarity is that the weather is hot and sunny, the new lambs are in the next door field again and all the other reliable signs of Spring are in evidence.
The First Ducklings I Have Seen This Year And Spring Lambs In The Neighbouring Field
Easter weekend is, this year, just like any other day in lockdown. There is now so little difference between one day and another. Planning and execution of holidays, trips to London and visits to my parents in Nottingham has stopped. Now planning is merely about deciding which circuitous and deserted route to take into the local shops, who is going to cook the evening meal and with what, and what trivial task will be undertaken today.
Most of my usual routines have persisted; I’m a creature of habit after all! For example, I still have fruit/yogurt/granola breakfast midweek but bread and jam at the weekends. The consistency of our salad lunches (except Sundays when we have roast chicken) has remained unperturbed by the Coronavirus. I still insist on listening to the radio news headlines twice a day (at 1pm and 5pm) despite their increasing repetition and depressing content. I still walk into town every morning to collect my newspaper. LSW and I still attempt the Guardian Quick Crossword together every late afternoon over tea.
But now, some new markers for the progression of the day and week have emerged. For instance, primarily at Youngest Son’s (YS’s) prompting, we play a game of Monopoly Deal after every lunch and dinner. Primarily at LSW’s prompting, we participate in the regular Thursday evening ‘Clap for Care Workers’ event in our lane alongside her ‘Hearts For Horsley’ banner – now, one of almost 100 in the vicinity.
Hearts Around Horsley Banners/Flags Including LSW’s And A Lego Version
Life has slowed down. It is just less full without the trips away from our home and my attendance at football games. Football ceasing at Forest Green Rovers during the lockdown has, I estimate, given me a day a week back now that there is no game to prepare for, travel to, watch, write up on the forums afterwards and generally worry about.
Now I spend more time sitting down to read my book or the newspaper in the afternoons which risks, and often leads to, snoozing. Amid the tendency to inactivity, my to-do lists have become more important again as I try to ensure that at least one thing worthwhile is completed each day. LSW, YS and I have collectively tried to structure our days and weeks to make sure we stay focused on achieving something even when there is so little pressing to do.
Wood Anemones Among First Bluebells And Massed Cherry Blossom
Another example of imposing a new structure to our time is that we have started to stick more rigidly to a schedule of drinking alcohol on just Wednesday, Friday and Saturday. This new rhythm feels more feasible now we are not going to dinner parties, social events or holiday destinations any more. It is certainly helping me achieve my New Year resolutions for alcohol-free days and reduced overall alcohol intake. The loss of the pre-Coronavirus/pre-Pub closure routines of the monthly Pub Quiz and beer while the Sunday roast is cooking has, alone, reduced my alcohol intake by about 10%.
As with the other (few) positive impacts of the virus outbreak – on increased local shopping and home cooking, decreased carbon emissions and improved air quality for example – it will be interesting to see if I revert to bad habits and previous levels of alcohol once the lockdown has passed. I’m confident I can avoid that.
Meanwhile, we all need to enjoy Spring as much as we can while, predominantly, staying at home and away from people outside our household (‘to protect the NHS and save lives’, including our own). Easy for me to say while in my relatively comfortable position, but I hope everyone reading this adheres to the current health guidelines and avoids the virus too.