Of course, having retired, the period arounds Christmas and New Year’s Day are no longer really holidays for me. But still, they are time for families to get together and to eat, drink and be at least a bit merrier than usual (at least, for the fortunate families). We have managed that and I hope readers of this did too.
Eldest and Middle Sons came back to visit us for a few days around Christmas and it was great to spend time with them and to see them go off to catch up with their old school mates. It’s important that they maintain those ties and I regret not doing so when I was their age. We spoke to and saw Youngest Son (YS) on WhatsApp but he was enjoying prawns and beer on a Queensland beach. He tells us that it may be his last beach Christmas in Australia and that he will return to England next year. Before that, LSW and I are travelling to Australia and meeting YS in Tasmania in March to make the most of him being on the other side of the world.
Christmas Day here was just about as full-on as usual. Long-Suffering Wife (LSW) allocated tasks to the boys and I, and she provided all but the turkey for a dozen excited extended family members. As part of a well tried split of responsibilities, the family of LSW’s younger brother brought a sumptuous roasted bird for us to tuck into. The food was terrific.
The post-lunch quiz that I compiled (to fulfil what has become a bit of a family tradition) was as hotly contested as usual, but it rounded off the afternoon nicely prior to flaking out in front of a Netflix film and a few lunch left-overs.
I side-stepped some of the festivities and food on Boxing Day by going off to Newport to watch Forest Green Rovers. I enjoyed finding the old part of the city and a Cathedral I didn’t know Newport had. But I loved, even more, that we achieved one of our best wins of the season. I came back hoarse but happy.
This ‘holiday’ period is traditionally a time when I consider New Year resolutions. But first I need to check how I did against those I set last year and the answer is: only moderately. I’ve succeeded with those that are essentially enjoyable but not so well on those that were more challenging.
So, for example, I did grow a beard and I’m happy with it. I did buy LSW more flowers too and need to reinvigorate that resolution when Spring comes around again. Also, I exceeded my target of averaging 15,000 walking steps a day (I averaged 15,880) but that’s because I love walking and now have loads of time to do it in the beautiful surrounding valleys. That much walking did help me to (just) achieve my target of lowering my weight to 11 stone in the summer and then again just before Christmas. However, I need to renew that weight objective since Christmas eating and drinking has tripped me back over target.
I also have to renew my objective of achieving 140 no-alcohol days in the year. I only managed 120 – more than the previous year but not enough. I underestimated the impact of the wonderful sunny and hot summer on my evening drinking habits; it was just so nice sitting in the newly built garden in the evening warmth with a cold glass of wine day after day. I hope summer next year is as good but I will be stronger willed, I promise.
On the technology front, I did, as resolved, change almost all my passwords and did it in a way that hasn’t made remembering them too hard. However, I haven’t done much about my resolution to get a better Internet service so as to reduce frustrated evenings in front of the rotating wait signal on the telly when trying to watch catch-up TV. However, I have instigated, and eavesdropped on, conversations at the regular village pub Men’s Nights with those who know more than I about the local broadband implementation. Fibre broadband is coming next year apparently.
I’m disappointed with myself that I’m carrying forward the resolution to implement better compost heaps in the garden. I have made progress with the existing heaps and compost bins. However, while I’m blaming the side strain I suffered a couple of months ago, I know I should have done more. The components for the super-duper compost bins LSW gave me a few years ago remain untouched in the shed. Fixing this is another resolution to carry forward.
I’ll augment the carry forward resolutions with a couple of new ones but I’m off to enjoy New Year’s Eve first. Have fun!